This short novel was a phenomenal read. Peter Barton was a wealthy entrepreneur whom was diagnosed with cancer at a young age. All his life he worried about dying early from cardiovascular disease like his father and grandfather- he made sure to exercise and maintain his health. Nevertheless, his uncontrollable fate of a short life was played out by a terminal illness. I suggest reading this book because it goes against the norm of our death denying culture. It embraces the importance of life and death. It really does an amazing job of putting you in the shoes of someone benefiting from palliative care and how he made the most of his last moments. Like most he did not want to die in a hospital and he made sure his life ended like he wanted to with the help of his doctors. I promise this book will be worth the read! 🙂
When my life comes to an end,
I ask for not too much time spent in tears, instead I pray you smile and rejoice to the life that I lived.
Let sunshine radiate through the room, let my body not be buried and in open view, instead I ask it be cremated and ready to cast out to the endless sea.
I invite all my loved ones and friends to spend a moment and share what words they left unsaid, if it may be joyous, sad, or cruel I invite them forward and be true.
To those I leave behind, do not spend a fortune on the possessions of the earth, for I look forward to the world unknown- my heaven where we will all reunite.
I came across this article and immediately thought of this course. In one of the lectures we discussed the soul and the definition of death. Early definitions of death included the soul leaving the body. However, there were many problems with this definition. One, how can we measure when the soul leaves, and two, the belief in a soul. In this article, Russian scientists believe they have captured an image of the exact moment the soul leaves the body.
“Our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them.” This famous quote by George Eliot is very moving and means that as long as deceased people are still in our hearts and memories, its almost like they are still around. Well in this article, the exact opposite is what’s going on, and this man was legally declared dead by a judge. Donald Eugene Miller Jr., a recovering alcoholic, was declared dead legally after disappearing for eight years. Now, even though you would think that it should be wrong for a person to be declared dead when really it is just an assumption, I feel that there has to be a line drawn in order to finally declare someone as dead. If he was only gone for a few months to a year, then maybe that would be a different story, but disappearing for 8 YEARS is absolutely ridiculous and gives the law no reason to have any clue that one may be alive. What if he actually did die? Like say got lost at sea while on a boat or something of that matter to be gone for 8 years. That’s what one would assume, but either way, now that he is appearing in court, he should have the rights to his social security back and his death certificate revoked even though there is a 3 year limit to revoke it. Overall, I found this article to be quite controversial in terms of what the law should do to help him legally get his life back. It is a case that seems so odd and irregular that not even the law knows what to do. I can only imagine what is going on through the man’s head wile legally having the title of not living, while he is in fact breathing and alive.
So, I just randomly stumbled across this TED talk video during my casual stroll across the interweb and it really caught my attention. Mr. Peter Saul touches on how a majority of people “deny” death and are unprepared for an end-of-life event. He also goes into some research he had done with end of life patients in which the patients were asked what they wanted before death. A lot of what he was lecturing arose interesting questions that a majority of us don’t ask ourselves or others like, “Who would speak my wishes if I was incapacitated” or “Do you have a plan for your own or a family members death”; all very prominent questions that a majority of people disregard.
An interesting topic that I took from the lecture was the advertisement of life and life promoting quotes and how they can pertain to death. I believe that by promoting our knowledge of life and death synonymously in our society today, it could eventually lead those who fear, deny, or are unaware of death towards the acceptance of our dying process.
Just a little brain food for all my fellow bloggers! I hope you enjoyed it and don’t be scared to reply, new perspectives and insights are always welcome!
The stalks these flowers are already dried up but their blossoms are preserved and kept fresh by the medical infusion bags. The life-span of every living creature is limited.The infusion bags stand for the progress in medicine and the prolongation of human life.They somehow carry an ambivalent message as they refer to both death and life an the same time. Both states are immanent here. To preserve the beauty of the flowers artificially with the help of the infusion bags points out man’s inclination to repress the fact having to die and to postpone death
Min Jeong Seo – To Live On, 2005